My fiancé and I hope to get married soon, but haven’t set the date. We’ve done the traditional engagement, but he wants us to get enough stuffs for the flat before marriage.
I am on the pill, but I would rather have kids when I’m young enough to cope. I am 25 and he is 30, and we have fairly well-paid jobs.
Do you think getting pregnant would hasten his commitment? I could go off the pill without telling him.
Fatima, by e-mail.
You are better off discussing how you feel with your partner instead of tricking him into putting your…