Should I get pregnant? – Vanguard News


Absence doesn’t necessarily make the heart grow fonder

Dear Bunmi,

My fiancé and I hope to get married soon, but haven’t set the date. We’ve done the traditional engagement, but he wants us to get enough stuffs for the flat before marriage.

I am on the pill, but I would rather have kids when I’m young enough to cope.  I am 25 and he is 30, and we have fairly well-paid jobs.

Do you think getting pregnant would hasten his commitment?  I could go off the pill without telling him.

Fatima, by e-mail.


Dear Fatima,

You are better off discussing how you feel with your partner instead of tricking him into putting your…


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