By Kazeem Ugbodaga
Precious Chikwendu, the ex-wife of former Minister of Aviation, Fani-Kayode has released photos of her battery by his ex-lover while reacting to the death of gospel singer, Osinachi Nwachukwu.
Chiwendu took to her Instagram page to upload the photos some hours ago.
She said she had been silently reading so much of the blames people were heaping on Osinachi for not speaking up.
“Sweethearts, you can’t understand the weight on a victim of domestic violence or how we go through so much compartmentalizing how the world would look at us, close friends waiting to laugh at us, those who would say we warned you, how our family members would humiliate us of putting them to shame if we do leave, how we would be irrelevant in places where we were deemed relevant by status of marriage or maintaining a home.
“You all forget that a narcissistic partner is one who feels threatened by the abilities or potential of their partner and I’ve said this to so many women and men I’ve had a chance to speak with after eating enough of this breakfast, that if he or she is intimidated by your personality , achievements, charisma, strength or God-given talent, sweetheart run for your life.
“Envy mixed with a slice of hate is violence-prone when it has to do with partners or lovers . If he or she can’t learn to talk over arguments without turning a red eye on you, screaming at you which gradually graduates to punches, the absolute need to intimidate or silence you on every unintended provocation, adrenaline rush when they exert authority or control,” she wrote.
