Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are getting serious, but her kids are her priority: report

Things are getting serious between Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck — but her kids will always stay her number one priority, say sources close to the pop diva. 

As she and her Hollywood-star beau get closer and closer, the thrice-married singer is wondering if, at her age, “lightning can strike” again in her love life, a pal said, but another says she will never put romance before family.

“She has to ensure that she is taking her children into account,” the source said about the “Jenny from…