MIRROR
My husband and I have been together for nearly a decade, we’re both 38 and have two children aged eight and six.
I love my husband and I’d say we have a really good marriage but, recently, I have started to fantasise a lot about my ex-boyfriend. I was with my ex between the ages of 20 and 24.
We met during our last year at university and had a really powerful physical attraction to each other. The times we spent together were among the happiest of my life.
However, he broke up with me after I hit a bad time; I was depressed because my parents were going through an acrimonious divorce and I was also struggling to work out what I wanted to do with my life.
He claimed he didn’t want to make my problems worse and that it would be good for both of us to make a fresh start. I was heartbroken, but I eventually got myself together and then four years after the break-up I met my husband.
I’m not saying things are bad with my husband, but sex isn’t as passionate as with my ex. It’s a different kind of relationship, but it bothers me that I’m thinking about my ex.
