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A psychic who claims that she can talk to the dead is sharing some interesting insights from her deceased conversation partners. According to the spirits of those who have died, Emily Dexter reports that everyone goes on a “spiritual spa day” to “heal” when they die.
The 31-year-old says she realized she was psychic as a child and would speak to spirits when playing in the forest near her home. Growing up, Emily says she would suppress her psychic abilities and would have her mother sleep in her bed because she was so scared of seeing spirits.
Dexter adds that dead family members aren’t good with boundaries, so they can pop up everywhere she goes. The psychic claims spirits have told her when we die, our spirit goes to a place where it can heal from the difficulties we had here in the living world.
“When we pass, we go to what I lovingly call a spiritual spa day,” says Dexter, a professional psychic from Lake Tahoe, California, in an online video post.
“So, we hang out with our dead loved ones for a week or two then head there, where we basically cope with and heal from all the difficulties we had while we were human. This period can last for a week, a year, or five years. It all depends on the person and their path.”
“Afterwards, we continue on our path – which usually includes popping back in to check on loved ones or guiding them when they pass, or moving on to our next life, or rejoining our higher self,” the psychic continues.
Dexter says she has been able to speak to spirits as long as she can remember and would spend time in the woods by her house hanging out with her “imaginary friends.”
“I have been able to do this from the moment I can remember,” the 31-year-old explains. “I thought everyone could see their past relatives standing in the room with them – I thought it was normal.”
“When I was eight, I realized that everyone couldn’t do that. I told my mum about all those weird things that had happened to me, and I would remember knowing that my mum didn’t know what these things are. I suppressed it a lot in middle school but in my early 20s I left an abusive relationship and realized I wanted my psychic abilities back.”
Emily notes that the reason she suppressed her abilities was not knowing how to talk about what she saw.
“It made me feel weird because I didn’t know how to talk about it,” Emily adds. “I was at the stage where I wanted to fit in but seeing dead people doesn’t really help you fit in. Now, it is so integrated into my daily life I don’t need to turn it on and off.”
“The way it works for me is I do see energy with my eyes, so I didn’t realize this for a long time, but over everything, there is a layer of energy that I see but other people can’t. I will also see spirit guides around people, the same with their passed loved ones. I have a room for them in my mind, and I have that door closed unless people ask for me to speak to them. Passed loved ones aren’t usually great with boundaries – they will want to give someone a message.”
Emily says the living are guided by “spiritual guides” who are essentially their team of helpers in life.
“You don’t necessarily see them, but you can hear them or just feel them with you. They are your team of helpers that work to help your life go the way you would like it to go and achieve the things you want to achieve. I think of them as friends, they are all friends, you have them for a long time, and they are around to help you out,” Dexter concludes.
