THE SUN
I KNEW my mum was selfish, but since discovering she lied about who my real dad was for 30 years, I don’t think selfish covers it.
She hasn’t once apologised and moans that my discovery has stirred up all the hurt again for her.
She loves him today, as much as she did then apparently. She is impossible.
I only discovered the truth when he tracked me down on social media.
While I was shocked, I believed him. He and his two sons look like me.
The man I called Dad when I was growing up often left the family home for months at a time.
He wasn’t even that shocked when he found out the truth.
His relationship with Mum was toxic and they are no longer together.
I’m a 31-year-old woman, my real dad is 64 and mum is 58.
Dad and I did a DNA kit test and when the results confirmed we were father and daughter we were both thrilled.
He is trying to make up for lost time and wants to be involved in my life.
While I’m so happy I’ve finally found him, I’m also livid that I missed out on years of having such a great dad in my life.
We have met five times already even though he lives 150 miles away.
Mum is constantly pumping me for information about him but has never once asked about how I am.
She says she’s still madly in love with my biological father. How can she say this about someone she hasn’t mentioned for 30 years?
