Pastor Adeyemi also expressed concerns over the increasing promotion of male enhancement products on social media.
PREMIUM TIMES
Sam Adeyemi, the Senior Pastor of Daystar Christian Centre, has advised men against enlarging their manhood.
Pastor Adeyemi gave the advice during his Sunday sermon on leadership, which was posted on his church’s official YouTube page.
The anchor of the ‘Excellent Leadership’ programme, aired on Daystar Network Television and Word Network in the US, highlighted the pressure social media places on people to make regrettable decisions.
Expressing concerns over the increasing promotion of male enhancement products on social media, Pastor Adeyemi emphasised that the effectiveness of a man’s manhood matters far more than its length or size.
He urged men to focus on understanding their partners’ needs and nurturing healthy connections rather than worrying about physical attributes.
He said: “One of the significant pressures we have is body image problems. It’s terrible, this comparison of your body with mine. Setting standards on what the body should look like, you find out you fell short. It is so bad
“I went to an all-boys secondary school. I still remember the day some of my classmates went somewhere, and by the time they came back, we had now found out what they had gone to do. They went with a ruler to measure their private parts and to compare. Nothing destroys self-image more than that. It is nonsense.”
Skill not size
The author of ‘Build Real Wealth: Practical Steps to Regain Financial Stability’ maintained that the physical size of manhood is less important than a man’s effectiveness and skill.
Additionally, he stated that a man who remains committed to one woman will not feel pressured to compare his manhood with others or seek ways to enlarge it.
“If you are a young guy, let me encourage you because it is there; it’s all over the internet now. Are they not there? Everywhere you look, you will see either medicine or one Chinese method of elongating your…
“It is a lie; it is not the length that matters but the effectiveness, the skills and your love for the other person. So, for God’s sake, wait till you get married. If it is only one person you are doing it with, there will be no need to compare all over the place. Do not let them kill you”, he said.
Social media
The 57-year-old added that many men seek out treatments to enlarge their manhood due to social media influence and societal pressure.
Mr Adeyemi noted that social media has fostered insecurity and feelings of inadequacy, often leading to trauma.
He added, “Isn’t it evident that social media is very instrumental in creating social pressure because you have an idealised on social media right now? Pictures that have been touching off, or even if they’re not. Now, how many people post their problems on social media?
“It’s the good part of their life. Some of the idealised pictures are even fake. We’ve seen people taking photos of other people’s houses and claiming it. People lying using car etc. Don’t let them kill you, it’s very important.
